Changing your inner picture

We've all heard the expression, "Garbage in; garbage out." While that's true
of a PC or laptop, it's also true of the inner computer. Whatever pictures
we're putting in, become what is out-pictured in our experience. So, if we
"see" ourselves from a negative perspective, with failure, anger,
resentment, etc., our life's experience will be reflective of that
negativity. On the other hand, if we "choose" to see ourselves from a
positive perspective, we will experience positive results. The critical word
is choice. In short, our lives and our ability to be happy and fulfilled is
a choice, whether or not we are will to take that responsibility.

This gets us back to self-worth or the lack thereof. There are several ways
that we can change the picture. First, change the program. Choose to see
yourself from a positive perspective by deliberately engaging in positive
"self-talk" creating a "can and will do" attitude. Avoid saying and thinking
negative things about yourself and others. Look for the good in every
situation. While you don't want to become Pollyanna, when you look for
good, you'll find it most of the time. After all, the only thing you really
control is your attitude, which is created by controlling your thoughts and
feelings that create belief that causes you to take right action. As
mentioned in an earlier message, set little achievable goals; things that
you can do each day. Start each day with a checklist of simple goals, e.g.,
"Go to the store" or "Pick up the kids." And at the end of the day, review
the list and enjoy your achievements. Finally, help others. When you help
another person is some useful way, the person you're really helping is
yourself. Later, more on the inner battle.

Good day and good work,

Norman

Norman J. York, President
York Career Development, Inc.
3307 Northland Drive, Suite 280
Austin, TX 78731
Austin: 512-502-8258
Houston: 866-502-8258
Cell: 512-656-8239
Web site: www.yorkinc.com

"Your vision will become clear only
when you look into your heart.
Who looks outside, dreams
Who looks inside, awakens"
Carl Jung